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		<title>By: Terence Yap</title>
		<link>http://terence.myblog.sg/trust-matters-most/comment-page-1#comment-132</link>
		<dc:creator>Terence Yap</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 22:44:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry for the late response, my friend. I shall try to write more :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry for the late response, my friend. I shall try to write more <img src='http://terence.myblog.sg/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: z</title>
		<link>http://terence.myblog.sg/trust-matters-most/comment-page-1#comment-126</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 03:14:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>all i can say is WoW!  great read.  keep it up.  no 2010 feedback to date?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>all i can say is WoW!  great read.  keep it up.  no 2010 feedback to date?</p>
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		<title>By: terenceyap7</title>
		<link>http://terence.myblog.sg/trust-matters-most/comment-page-1#comment-76</link>
		<dc:creator>terenceyap7</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2009 02:02:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear f&amp;b,

The more I know, the more I realize how little I actually know. 

There is a life after betrayal; I am living proof of this.

After losing everything, the way to live is: One Day At A Time.

You go on by shifting your focus on other things. Stop thinking about the things that hurt you. Think about your other friends or go watch a funny movie. Thinking about the things that you cannot handle is not going to help you. Give it some time. It may take days or, years. But you&#039;ll get there. I&#039;ve been there. I have gone on. 

&quot;What&#039;s the use in living?&quot;. Before one can answer this question, the answer to, &quot;What is the purpose of my life?&quot; must first be addressed. Your answer shall determine the use in living.

When everything was taken away from me and I was left with nothing, I began to understand my dependance on the things I &quot;owned&quot;. When I was left with &quot;nothing&quot;, I realized that I had everything I really needed.

The emptiness I felt, and the pain that came along with it, was difficult to deal with. I did some really stupid things back then. I focused away from the source of my pain but got myself into a lot of trouble. So perhaps I am not the best person to be giving you advice, my friend.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear f&amp;b,</p>
<p>The more I know, the more I realize how little I actually know. </p>
<p>There is a life after betrayal; I am living proof of this.</p>
<p>After losing everything, the way to live is: One Day At A Time.</p>
<p>You go on by shifting your focus on other things. Stop thinking about the things that hurt you. Think about your other friends or go watch a funny movie. Thinking about the things that you cannot handle is not going to help you. Give it some time. It may take days or, years. But you&#8217;ll get there. I&#8217;ve been there. I have gone on. </p>
<p>&#8220;What&#8217;s the use in living?&#8221;. Before one can answer this question, the answer to, &#8220;What is the purpose of my life?&#8221; must first be addressed. Your answer shall determine the use in living.</p>
<p>When everything was taken away from me and I was left with nothing, I began to understand my dependance on the things I &#8220;owned&#8221;. When I was left with &#8220;nothing&#8221;, I realized that I had everything I really needed.</p>
<p>The emptiness I felt, and the pain that came along with it, was difficult to deal with. I did some really stupid things back then. I focused away from the source of my pain but got myself into a lot of trouble. So perhaps I am not the best person to be giving you advice, my friend.</p>
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		<title>By: flayed &#38; betrayed</title>
		<link>http://terence.myblog.sg/trust-matters-most/comment-page-1#comment-74</link>
		<dc:creator>flayed &#38; betrayed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2009 08:44:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you sound like you know about a lot of stuff. you tell me if there is a life after betrayal? how do you live after losing everything? how do you go on? what&#039;s the use in living when everything that ever mean anything to you has been taken away from you? like your heart ripped out of your chest. tell me if you know the answers. please. tell me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you sound like you know about a lot of stuff. you tell me if there is a life after betrayal? how do you live after losing everything? how do you go on? what&#8217;s the use in living when everything that ever mean anything to you has been taken away from you? like your heart ripped out of your chest. tell me if you know the answers. please. tell me.</p>
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		<title>By: Terence Yap</title>
		<link>http://terence.myblog.sg/trust-matters-most/comment-page-1#comment-20</link>
		<dc:creator>Terence Yap</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 22:26:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, my friend: there is indeed more than one way of seeing things.

*smiles*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, my friend: there is indeed more than one way of seeing things.</p>
<p>*smiles*</p>
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		<title>By: Political Disgust</title>
		<link>http://terence.myblog.sg/trust-matters-most/comment-page-1#comment-15</link>
		<dc:creator>Political Disgust</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 23:48:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Terrence - you said: The fact that I sit on my chair without checking to see if it can take my weight and stroll down a sidewalk without worrying if it will collapse beneath me are examples of how trust plays an important role in my life. The more I am able to trust, the freer my mind becomes.

Isn&#039;t that &quot;fact&quot; more then &quot;trust&quot;. You don&#039;t actually know that the chair will hold you. you just assume that based on past knowledge or facts you have learned. If you trusted the chair to hold you then you might not think it actually would, lol. It is fun twisting words and playing with meanings. In the end, BOTH ways of looking at it are correct depending on your viewpoint! 
Cheers</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Terrence &#8211; you said: The fact that I sit on my chair without checking to see if it can take my weight and stroll down a sidewalk without worrying if it will collapse beneath me are examples of how trust plays an important role in my life. The more I am able to trust, the freer my mind becomes.</p>
<p>Isn&#8217;t that &#8220;fact&#8221; more then &#8220;trust&#8221;. You don&#8217;t actually know that the chair will hold you. you just assume that based on past knowledge or facts you have learned. If you trusted the chair to hold you then you might not think it actually would, lol. It is fun twisting words and playing with meanings. In the end, BOTH ways of looking at it are correct depending on your viewpoint!<br />
Cheers</p>
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		<title>By: Terence Yap</title>
		<link>http://terence.myblog.sg/trust-matters-most/comment-page-1#comment-13</link>
		<dc:creator>Terence Yap</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Dec 2008 01:46:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There is much that I concur with, my friend. Trust is a choice. But allow me to share my thoughts on this matter.

I often ask myself if my interpretation of that which I perceive to be reality really is the correct perception on which to base my opinions and thoughts upon. When I choose to believe that others are right, I never forget that such people are true to themselves when they hold on to their beliefs. This is not to say that they are right in entirety.

The fact that I sit on my chair without checking to see if it can take my weight and stroll down a sidewalk without worrying if it will collapse beneath me are examples of how trust plays an important role in my life. The more I am able to trust, the freer my mind becomes. 

Regardless, I too do not rely on trust unless I believe that the persons whom I choose to trust are are worth taking a chance on.

Thank you for taking the time to read this article and commenting on it, my friend.

*smiles*

terence</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is much that I concur with, my friend. Trust is a choice. But allow me to share my thoughts on this matter.</p>
<p>I often ask myself if my interpretation of that which I perceive to be reality really is the correct perception on which to base my opinions and thoughts upon. When I choose to believe that others are right, I never forget that such people are true to themselves when they hold on to their beliefs. This is not to say that they are right in entirety.</p>
<p>The fact that I sit on my chair without checking to see if it can take my weight and stroll down a sidewalk without worrying if it will collapse beneath me are examples of how trust plays an important role in my life. The more I am able to trust, the freer my mind becomes. </p>
<p>Regardless, I too do not rely on trust unless I believe that the persons whom I choose to trust are are worth taking a chance on.</p>
<p>Thank you for taking the time to read this article and commenting on it, my friend.</p>
<p>*smiles*</p>
<p>terence</p>
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		<title>By: Political Disgust</title>
		<link>http://terence.myblog.sg/trust-matters-most/comment-page-1#comment-12</link>
		<dc:creator>Political Disgust</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2008 23:27:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Trust is only something you have to worry about if you do not have it in a relationship. &quot;Trust&quot; is inherently a negative thing to me. You have to choose to trust someone or something, instead of just knowing the person or thing you are with is RIGHT and the right person for you.

I do not rely on Trust. I just know.

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Political Disgust</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Trust is only something you have to worry about if you do not have it in a relationship. &#8220;Trust&#8221; is inherently a negative thing to me. You have to choose to trust someone or something, instead of just knowing the person or thing you are with is RIGHT and the right person for you.</p>
<p>I do not rely on Trust. I just know.</p>
<p>&#8212;<br />
Political Disgust</p>
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		<title>By: terence yap singapore</title>
		<link>http://terence.myblog.sg/trust-matters-most/comment-page-1#comment-10</link>
		<dc:creator>terence yap singapore</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Dec 2008 15:45:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Dorsi,

Yes, we all make mistakes; and accepting the imperfections in others leads to a deeper understanding of the reality that we perceive as the world we live in. 

While it is true that some of us can find it within ourselves to gracefully embrace our humanity and the shortcomings that come with it, that same grace should compel us to accept the difference in perception that others embrace.

Inasmuch as there will be those that make honest mistakes, there are also those who have been given the benefit of every doubt but persist in repeating the same mistakes without exception.

There are the takers, the givers, and the watchers. I be the watcher that takes sparingly and gives wherever possible, my friend.

Forgiveness is king!

*smiles*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Dorsi,</p>
<p>Yes, we all make mistakes; and accepting the imperfections in others leads to a deeper understanding of the reality that we perceive as the world we live in. </p>
<p>While it is true that some of us can find it within ourselves to gracefully embrace our humanity and the shortcomings that come with it, that same grace should compel us to accept the difference in perception that others embrace.</p>
<p>Inasmuch as there will be those that make honest mistakes, there are also those who have been given the benefit of every doubt but persist in repeating the same mistakes without exception.</p>
<p>There are the takers, the givers, and the watchers. I be the watcher that takes sparingly and gives wherever possible, my friend.</p>
<p>Forgiveness is king!</p>
<p>*smiles*</p>
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		<title>By: Dorsi</title>
		<link>http://terence.myblog.sg/trust-matters-most/comment-page-1#comment-9</link>
		<dc:creator>Dorsi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Dec 2008 00:38:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Trust can be very elusive for some people- more so for people I would say that have not been raised being able to trust in the world and the people around them. I was fortunate to be able to trust my world growing up, for the most part, and you are right, about how IMPORTANT is to trust those you love and giving them the benefit of the doubt. We all make mistakes, and accepting mistakes is also part of understanding trust.
If you can accept the fact that we are all humans and make mistakes, trust can more easily be established, especially with those who admit to wrong-doing and making mistakes. Forgiveness is so important too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Trust can be very elusive for some people- more so for people I would say that have not been raised being able to trust in the world and the people around them. I was fortunate to be able to trust my world growing up, for the most part, and you are right, about how IMPORTANT is to trust those you love and giving them the benefit of the doubt. We all make mistakes, and accepting mistakes is also part of understanding trust.<br />
If you can accept the fact that we are all humans and make mistakes, trust can more easily be established, especially with those who admit to wrong-doing and making mistakes. Forgiveness is so important too.</p>
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