Comments for Terence Yap

Comment on Erosion of the Family Unit by Terence Yap

Terence Yap — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 06:15:12 +0000

Sadly, I agree with you. I hope this trend abates somewhere in the near future, my friend.

Comment on Erosion of the Family Unit by California Injury Lawyer

California Injury Lawyer — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 05:28:28 +0000

With a lack of moral values and the acceptance of immoral Babylonian behavior, this is what happens.

Comment on Trust Matters Most by terenceyap7

terenceyap7 — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 02:02:51 +0000

Dear f&b,

The more I know, the more I realize how little I actually know.

There is a life after betrayal; I am living proof of this.

After losing everything, the way to live is: One Day At A Time.

You go on by shifting your focus on other things. Stop thinking about the things that hurt you. Think about your other friends or go watch a funny movie. Thinking about the things that you cannot handle is not going to help you. Give it some time. It may take days or, years. But you’ll get there. I’ve been there. I have gone on.

“What’s the use in living?”. Before one can answer this question, the answer to, “What is the purpose of my life?” must first be addressed. Your answer shall determine the use in living.

When everything was taken away from me and I was left with nothing, I began to understand my dependance on the things I “owned”. When I was left with “nothing”, I realized that I had everything I really needed.

The emptiness I felt, and the pain that came along with it, was difficult to deal with. I did some really stupid things back then. I focused away from the source of my pain but got myself into a lot of trouble. So perhaps I am not the best person to be giving you advice, my friend.

Comment on Trust Matters Most by flayed & betrayed

flayed & betrayed — Wed, 29 Jul 2009 08:44:34 +0000

you sound like you know about a lot of stuff. you tell me if there is a life after betrayal? how do you live after losing everything? how do you go on? what’s the use in living when everything that ever mean anything to you has been taken away from you? like your heart ripped out of your chest. tell me if you know the answers. please. tell me.

Comment on Rising Transport Costs – Alternatives and Consequences by Terence Yap

Terence Yap — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 06:14:13 +0000

As soon as I can muster enough substance to justify another blog, my friend. Thanks for your feedback.

*smiles*

Comment on Rising Transport Costs – Alternatives and Consequences by KonstantinMiller

KonstantinMiller — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 20:49:20 +0000

Hello. I think the article is really interesting. I am even interested in reading more. How soon will you update your blog?

Comment on Contact by terenceyap7

terenceyap7 — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 18:28:50 +0000

Sure thing, my friend.

*smiles*

Comment on Contact by Lu Jie

Lu Jie — Sat, 20 Jun 2009 14:48:20 +0000

Hi, can i buy you lunch some day before 24th July?

Comment on Trust Matters Most by Terence Yap

Terence Yap — Tue, 27 Jan 2009 22:26:22 +0000

Yes, my friend: there is indeed more than one way of seeing things.

*smiles*

Comment on Trust Matters Most by Political Disgust

Political Disgust — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 23:48:06 +0000

Terrence – you said: The fact that I sit on my chair without checking to see if it can take my weight and stroll down a sidewalk without worrying if it will collapse beneath me are examples of how trust plays an important role in my life. The more I am able to trust, the freer my mind becomes.

Isn’t that “fact” more then “trust”. You don’t actually know that the chair will hold you. you just assume that based on past knowledge or facts you have learned. If you trusted the chair to hold you then you might not think it actually would, lol. It is fun twisting words and playing with meanings. In the end, BOTH ways of looking at it are correct depending on your viewpoint!
Cheers